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When Dad Falls Short
Finding Healing in God's Perfect Fatherhood
About Me
Clay Hess
Author
Clay Hess is a husband, father, grandfather, professor, and devoted follower of Christ whose writing emerges from personal experience and spiritual insight. With an educational foundation including a BA, MBA, and Ed.D., along with professional certification as a Certified Scrum Master (CSM), he brings both academic rigor and practical expertise to his exploration of the journey from brokenness to restoration, drawing from his own path of healing and transformation through understanding God’s perfect fatherhood.
Professionally, Clay balances his work as a college professor and web developer with the rich simplicity of life on his Northern Wisconsin ranch, where he and his wife embrace rural living. His diverse academic background enriches his writing with depth and perspective. With grown children now, he treasures his role as grandfather, finding new dimensions of God’s faithfulness across generations.
When not teaching, writing, or coding, Clay pursues his passion for music and explores the Wisconsin wilderness. As an active member of his local church, he speaks at retreats and conferences, sharing his testimony of how Christ redeems broken experiences and restores what was lost—themes that resonate throughout his writing.
"Like many fathers, I've learned that healing father wounds isn't a simple destination but a sacred journey walked in partnership with our perfect Father. Through this process, the very wounds that once defined us can become windows through which God's healing light shines most brightly."
- Clay Hess
EXCELLENT Based on 10 reviews Posted on JanellVerified Gentle, Honest, and Healing This book really spoke to some places in me I didn’t realize I was still carrying. It doesn’t bash fathers, it just gently walks you through the reality that not all of us got what we needed growing up. The focus on God’s fatherhood isn’t preachy, it’s comforting. Like being reminded that you’re still held, still loved, even if your earthly dad missed the mark.Posted on Barnes FamilyVerified Healing for the dad-shaped hole in your heart This is such a needed book. "When Dad Falls Short" handles a sensitive topic with truth and tenderness. It acknowledges the scars left by imperfect fathers but points relentlessly to the sufficiency of God. As a pastor, I see the damage of "father wounds" constantly, and this book is a wonderful tool for restoration. If you have ever felt let down by the man who raised you, this book will help you fall into the arms of the God who made you.Posted on Noah HessVerified Inspiring read Great tool for a father son relationship, the navigation of a father son relationship is hard but this clearly makes it easierPosted on Jeff M.Verified This book brings healing with every chapter. This is an amazing book, obviously formed out of personal experience and God's wisdom. Every chapter is packed with pastoral wisdom and counsel to carefully address the deep wounds fathers can leave but that our Heavenly Father can heal. I loved the incredible insights into this critical issue. We can't walk in the fullness as parents unless we address wounds or shadows our parents may have cast, so this book is so helpful to restoring parents to experience God the Father and parent as the overflow.I felt like every chapter was pointed right at me, like God wanted to say something to me. I love the topic of fathering and have five children, and this was so good for me to read and apply in my life.Posted on Matthew StoperaVerified Great book! Great book! Our view of God can get very distorted when we grow up under imperfect people that do not reflect the true nature and character of God. If you want to heal from earthly father wounds and get to know who God really is as a loving father you've got to read this book!Posted on JuliaVerified makes you think a lot of philosophical thought, something to think aboutPosted on Natalie EveVerified Honest Insights on Healing and Fatherhood A clear and thoughtful reminder that no earthly father is perfect, but God’s love is. This book offers a grounded, faith-based perspective that’s easy to read and encourages reflection.Posted on Teri H.Verified Powerful, relatable read with helpful tips and points the reader back to truths of Gods word When Dad Falls Short is a powerful and relatable read for anyone who has experienced the ache of a complicated or absent father relationship. The author offers heartfelt stories, gentle truth, and healing insights that meet you right where you are. It’s both comforting and convicting in all the right ways.What stood out to me most was how approachable the writing is—it's an easy read, yet full of depth. The book doesn't just name the pain; it gives you practical, biblical tools to begin healing and breaking generational patterns. I especially appreciated the reminders of God’s perfect Father-love, even when our earthly fathers fall short.Highly recommend for anyone walking through father wounds or supporting someone who is.
When Dad Falls Short
Finding Healing in God's Perfect Fatherhood
Discover the transformative power of God’s perfect fatherhood in When Dad Falls Short. This heartfelt book takes readers on a journey of healing, offering hope to those shaped by the shadows of broken or absent father relationships. Through personal stories, biblical truths, and practical guidance, this book reveals how God’s love transcends the limitations of earthly fathers, providing restoration and freedom.
Explore how father wounds impact identity, relationships, and faith, and learn how to separate the imperfections of human fathers from the unchanging character of God. With compassion and wisdom, the author offers steps to process pain, build trust in God’s faithful love, and embrace your identity as His beloved child.
Whether you’ve experienced abandonment, harsh criticism, or emotional distance, When Dad Falls Short shows how God’s perfect fatherhood can heal even the deepest wounds. This book is not just about overcoming the past—it’s about discovering the extraordinary love of a Father who never fails, never abandons, and always pursues His children.
Perfect for anyone longing for deeper intimacy with God or seeking encouragement to break free from father wounds, this book offers a timeless message of grace and renewal.